如果看中英文版本比较费劲,可以看我的【简单解读版】。
下面是中英文版本第二部分,上半部分在这里。
IV – The life you want lies within a specific level of mind
你想要的生活存在于特定的心灵层次
The mind evolves through predictable stages over time.
When you’re born, you’re like a little survival sponge that absorbs whatever beliefs you can (which are heavily dictated by your culture) so that you can feel safe and secure. And if you don’t be careful, your mind may crystalize and it may make it difficult to live a meaningful life.
This has been documented enough in models like Maslow’s Hierarchy, Greuter’s stages of ego development, and Spiral Dynamics, each building off of one another, but it’s also not difficult to observe in society.
I’ve talked about these many times, and synthesized them into my own Human 3.0 model, but here’s the 80/20 of the 9 stages of ego development as a refresher (because repetition helps reveal things you didn’t notice before, and there are new people reading these letters):
Impulsive — No separation between impulse and action. Black and white thinking. I.e. A toddler hits when angry because the feeling and the behavior are the same thing.
Self-Protective — The world is dangerous and you learn to look out for yourself. I.e. A kid learns to hide report cards, lie about chores, and figure out what adults want to hear.
Conformist — You are your group and its rules feel like reality itself. I.e. Someone who genuinely cannot fathom why anyone would vote differently than their family or group.
Self-Aware — You notice you have an inner life that doesn’t match the exterior. I.e. Sitting in church and realizing you’re not sure you believe what everyone around you seems to believe, but not knowing what to do with that feeling yet.
Conscientious — You build your own system of principles and hold yourself accountable to them. I.e. Leaving your family’s religion after careful study and adopting a personal philosophy you can defend, or building a career plan with clear milestones because you believe the right effort yields the right results.
Individualist — You see that your principles were shaped by context and start holding them more loosely. I.e. Realizing your political views have more to do with where you grew up than objective truth, or noticing that your ambitious career goals were really about earning your father’s approval.
Strategist — You work with systems while aware of your own involvement in them. I.e. Leading an organization while actively questioning your own blind spots, or engaging in politics knowing your perspective is partial and shaped by bias you can’t fully see.
Construct-Aware — You see all frameworks, including your identity, as useful fictions. I.e. Holding your spiritual beliefs with metaphorically not literally, knowing the map is not the territory, or watching yourself play the role of “founder” or “thought leader” with a kind of gentle amusement.
Unitive — Separation between self and life dissolves. I.e. Work, rest, and play feel like the same thing. There’s no one left who needs to become something, just presence responding to what arises.
For most people reading this, I would assume you hover between 4 and 8, which is a huge gap. Those closer to 8 are reading this are doing so to either learn something or pass time. Those closer to 4 are really looking for a change. You feel like you are meant for more, but you can’t make sense of everything yet, because there’s obviously a lot at play.
The good thing is, it doesn’t really matter what stage you are in, because moving through any of them follows a pattern.
V – Intelligence is the ability to get what you want out of life
智力是获得你想要的人生的能力
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The only real test of intelligence is if you get what you want out of life.
– Naval Ravikant
There is a formula for success.
One ingredient is agency.
One ingredient is opportunity (which many people like to mistake as “privilege” - because they the other ingredients).
The last ingredient is intelligence.
If you have high agency but low opportunity, it doesn’t matter how likely you are to act toward a goal, because it isn’t a goal that will bear much fruit.
If you have opportunity and agency but low intelligence, then you will never be fully able to benefit from that opportunity.
First, we’ve talked about agency before here. In terms of opportunity, I can’t tell you to change your physical location, but if you don’t see the abundance of digital opportunity right in front of you, I don’t know what to tell you.
With that said, I want to focus on what intelligence is in the context of these two other ingredients and this letter.
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Cybernetics comes from the greek word kybernetikos which means “to steer” or “good at steering.”
It’s also known as “the art of getting what you want.”
So, if Naval’s definition of intelligence is getting what you want out of life, understanding cybernetics helps you do that much faster.
Cybernetics illustrates the properties of intelligent systems.
- To have a goal
- Act toward that goal
- Sense where you are
- Compare it to the goal
- And act again based on that feedback
You can judge intelligence based on the system’s ability to iterate and persist with trial and error.
A ship blown off course that corrects toward its destination. A thermostat sensing a change in heat and turning on. The pancreas excreting insulin after blood glucose spikes.
What does this have to do with getting what you want out of life?
Everything.
Acting, sensing, comparing, and understanding the system from a meta-perspective is fundamental to high intelligence.
High intelligence is the ability to iterate, persist, and understand the big picture. The mark of low intelligence is the inability to learn from your mistakes.
Low-intelligence people get stuck on problems rather than solving them. They hit a roadblock and quit. Like a writer who fails to build a readership and quits because they lack the ability to try new things, experiment, and figure out a process that works for them (to think that there isn’t an effective process you can create is verifiably false, no matter your limiting beliefs, hence being low intelligence.)
High intelligence is realizing any problem can be solved on a large enough timescale. The reality is that you can achieve any goal you set your mind to. This isn’t something that can be disproven within reason.
Intelligence is realizing that there is a series of choices you can make which lead to achieving the goal you want. You understand that ideas are hierarchical and that you can’t go from papyrus to Google docs in one fell swoop. Even if that goal is impossible right now, you simply don’t have the resources – which may be invented over the next few years – to achieve that thing.
When I talk about “goals,” and as I will continue repeating, I am not speaking from the typical lens of self-help, although that’s a helpful lens to adopt at times.
I am speaking from the lens of teleology or the Greek kosmos – that everything serves a purpose. That everything is a part of a greater whole.
Goals determine how you see the world.
Goals determine what you consider “success” or “failure.”
You can try to “enjoy the journey,” but if you pursue the wrong goal, you will not enjoy it.
Your mind is the operating system for reality.
That system is composed of goals.
For most people, those goals are assigned to them. Programmed like lines of code in your psyche.
Go to school. Get the job. Get offended. Play victim. Retire at 65.
A known path that doesn’t work.
To become more intelligent, you must:
- Reject the known path
- Dive into the unknown
- Set new, higher goals to expand your mind
- Embrace the chaos and allow for growth
- Study the generalized principles of nature
- Become a deep generalist
That leads us into the next section perfectly.
VI – How to launch into a completely new life in 1 day
如何在一天内开启全新的生活
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The best periods of my life always came after a period of getting absolutely fed up with the lack of progress I was making.
How do you dig into your mind?
How do you become aware of your conditioning?
How do you reach profound insights and truths that change the trajectory of your life?
Through the simple, but often painful act of questioning.
Something that so few people do, and you can tell by how they speak or give their thoughts on a specific topic. Questioning is thinking, and very few people do it.
I want to give you a comprehensive protocol that you can use every year to reset your life and launch into a season of intense progress. This protocol helps you ask the right questions.
These questions will cover the macro to the micro: where you want to be, what you need to do to get there, and what you can do immediately to start moving the needle toward that reality. 这些问题涵盖宏观到微观:你想达到什么样,你需要做什么才能达到那里,以及你可以立即采取哪些措施来推动朝那个目标迈进。
This will require one full day to complete, so I recommend you follow along with the exact protocol. You will need a pen, paper, and an open mind. 完成这一过程需要整整一天,所以我建议你严格按照流程进行。你需要一支笔、一张纸,还有一个开放的心态。
When I observe patterns in people who successfully flip their identity, it happens fast after a build up of tension. Specifically, I’ve noticed 3 phases that people then to go through. 当我观察到那些成功翻身的人,这种模式往往在紧张积累后迅速发生。具体来说,我注意到人们会经历三个阶段。
Dissonance – They feel like they don’t belong in their current life, and become sufficiently fed up with their lack of progress. 不协调 ——他们觉得自己不属于当前的生活,对进展缓慢感到厌倦。
Uncertainty – They don’t know what comes next, so they either experiment or get lost and feel worse. 不确定性——他们不知道接下来会发生什么,所以要么试验,要么迷失方向,感觉更糟。
Discovery – They discover what they want to pursue and make 6 years of progress in 6 months. 发现 —— 他们发现自己想追求的东西,并在 6 个月内取得 6 年的进步。
So, our goal with this protocol is to help you reach the point of dissonance, navigate through uncertainty, and discover what it truly is that you want to achieve, so much so that the clarity is overwhelming and distractions no longer hold their weight. 因此,我们这个方案的目标是帮助你达到不和谐的临界点,穿越不确定性,发现你真正想要实现的目标,以至于这种清晰感让你感到无比震撼,而各种干扰因素也不再具有影响力。
This protocol is structured so that it can be completed in one day. In the morning, you do a psychological excavation to uncover your own hidden motives. During the day, you prompt yourself with interrupts to keep you out of autopilot and contemplate your life. At night, you synthesize the insights into a direction you will start to move in tomorrow. 这个方案设计得适合一天内完成。早晨,你进行心理挖掘,揭示自己隐藏的动机。白天,你会不时地打断自己,让自己摆脱自动驾驶模式,思考自己的人生。晚上,你综合洞见,规划明天将开始前进的方向。
I cannot guarantee that this will work for everyone, because I cannot guarantee that everyone reading this is in the right chapter of their own story that would make these points impactful. You can’t place the climax at the start of the book and expect it to be interesting. 我不能保证这对所有人都适用,因为我无法保证每个读者都处于自己人生故事的合适阶段,从而使这些观点产生影响。你不能把高潮放在书的开头,还指望它引人入胜。
Part 1: Morning – Psychological Excavation – Vision & Anti-Vision 第一部分: 早晨——心理挖掘——愿景&反愿景
First we must create a new frame, or lens of perception, for your mind to operate from. 首先,我们必须为你的思维创造一个新的框架或感知的透镜。
This is like creating a new shell, leaving your old one, and slowly growing into it over time. It won’t feel like it fits at first. That’s a good thing. 这就像创造一个新的外壳,离开旧壳,然后随着时间的推移慢慢适应它。一开始会觉得不太合适,但这反而是件好事。
Set aside 15-30 minutes (the length of one YouTube video… you can do it) to think about and answer these questions. Do not attempt to outsource this contemplation to AI. I want you to break past the limiter that is on your mind. If you can’t answer these immediately, come back to them later. 预留 15-30 分钟(相当于一个 YouTube 视频的长度…你一定可以做到)来思考并回答这些问题。不要试图把这种思考外包给人工智能。我希望你能突破思维的局限。如果你现在无法回答这些问题,可以稍后再来思考。
What is the dull and persistent dissatisfaction you’ve learned to live with? Not the deep suffering but what you’ve learned to tolerate. (If you don’t hate it, you will tolerate it) 你已经学会忍受的那种迟钝而持久的不满是什么?不是那种刻骨铭心的痛苦,而是你已经学会容忍的那种不满。(如果你不憎恨它,你就会容忍它。)
What do you complain about repeatedly but never actually change? Write down the three complaints you’ve voiced most often in the past year. 你反复抱怨什么,却从不真正改变?写下你过去一年中最常提出的三个抱怨。
For each complaint: What would someone who watched your behavior (not your words) conclude that you actually want? 针对每一项抱怨:观察你的行为(而不是你的言语)的人会得出你真正想要的是什么结论?
What truth about your current life would be unbearable to admit to someone you deeply respect? 你现在生活中有哪些真相是你无法向你非常尊敬的人坦白的?
Those questions are meant to make you aware of the pain in your current life. Now, we need to turn those into what I call an “anti-vision,” which is a brutal awareness of the life you do not want to live. That way, you can use that negative energy to aim your efforts in a positive direction and act from a place of intrinsic motivation. 这些问题旨在让你意识到当前生活中的痛苦。现在,我们需要将这些痛苦转化为我所谓的“反愿景”,即对你不想要的生活的残酷认知。这样,你就能利用这种负能量,将你的努力导向积极的方向,并出于内在动力而行动。
If absolutely nothing changes for the next five years, describe an average Tuesday. Where do you wake up? What does your body feel like? What’s the first thing you think about? Who’s around you? What do you do between 9am and 6pm? How do you feel at 10pm? 如果未来五年内一切照旧,请描述一下你平常的星期二。你在哪里醒来?你的身体感觉如何?你想到的第一件事是什么?你身边有哪些人?从早上 9 点到下午 6 点,你都做了些什么?晚上 10 点你感觉如何?
Now do it but for ten years. What have you missed? What opportunities closed? Who gave up on you? What do people say about you when you’re not in the room? 现在,试着把时间延长十年。你错过了什么?哪些机会溜走了?谁放弃了你?当你不在场时,人们会怎么评价你?
You’re at the end of your life. You lived the safe version. You never broke the pattern. What was the cost? What did you never let yourself feel, try, or become? 你已走到生命的尽头。你过着安稳的生活,从未打破过既定的模式。为此付出了什么代价?你从未让自己感受过、尝试过、成为过什么?
Who in your life is already living the future you just described? Someone five, ten, twenty years ahead on the same trajectory? What do you feel when you think about becoming them? 你身边有哪些人已经过着你刚才描述的未来生活?那些比你领先五年、十年、二十年,走着同样道路的人呢?当你想到自己会成为他们时,你有什么感受?
What identity would you have to give up to actually change? (”I am the type of person who…”) What would it cost you socially to no longer be that person? 为了真正改变自己,你需要放弃哪些身份?(“我以前是那种人……”)不再做那样的人,你在社交方面会付出怎样的代价?
What is the most embarrassing reason you haven’t changed? The one that makes you sound weak, scared, or lazy rather than reasonable? 你至今没有改变的最尴尬的理由是什么?那个让你听起来软弱、害怕或懒惰,而不是合情合理的理由?
If your current behavior is a form of self-protection, what exactly are you protecting? And what is that protection costing you? 如果你目前的行为是一种自我保护,那么你究竟在保护什么?这种保护又让你付出了什么代价?
If you answered those truthfully, and if you are in the right chapter of your life, you will feel a deep sense of dis-ease and possibly disgust for how you are currently living. Now, we need to orient that energy in a positive direction. We need to create a minimum viable vision, because your vision is like a product. It starts out unclear, but with time and experience, it grows stronger and more potent. 如果你如实回答这些问题,并且正处在人生的合适阶段,你会感到深深的不安,甚至对当前的生活感到厌恶。现在,我们需要将这股能量引导到一个积极的方向。我们需要创造一个最小可行的愿景,因为你的愿景就像一个产品。它起初可能并不清晰,但随着时间和经验的积累,它会变得越来越清晰、越来越有力。
Forget practicality for a minute. If you could snap your fingers and be living a different life in three years, not what’s realistic, what you actually want? What does an average Tuesday look like? Same level of detail as question 5. 暂时抛开实际因素。如果你能打个响指,三年后就能过上截然不同的生活,那么,你真正想要的是什么?不是现实的那种生活,而是你真正想要的生活?一个普通的星期二会是什么样子?细节程度与第五题相同。
What would you have to believe about yourself for that life to feel natural rather than forced? Write the identity statement: “I am the type of person who…” 你对自己有怎样的信念,才能让那种生活感觉自然而非勉强?请写下你的自我认同宣言:“我是那种xxx样身份的人”
What is one thing you would do this week if you were already that person? 如果你已经是那个人,这周你会做什么?
Answer all of those first thing in the morning tomorrow. 明天一早先回答这些问题。
Part 2: Throughout The Day – Interrupting Autopilot – Breaking Unconscious Patterns 第二部分: 全天候——打断自动驾驶——打破无意识的行事方式
These journaling exercises are cute, but we want real change. 这些写日记的练习很有趣,但我们想要的是真正的改变。
Frankly, that’s not going to happen if you don’t break the current unconscious patterns that are keeping you the same. 坦白说,如果你不打破目前让你停滞不前的无意识模式,这一切都不会发生。
Throughout the day, I want you to contemplate on everything you journaled in part one. Beyond that, I don’t want you to forget to contemplate. Please take this seriously. You aren’t going to change by doing the same thing for the rest of your life. You need to consciously force a pattern break. 今天一整天,我都希望你认真思考你在第一部分日记里记录的所有内容。除此之外,我也希望你不要忘记思考。请认真对待这件事。如果你一辈子都做同样的事情,你不会改变的。你需要有意识地打破旧有的模式。
Take the time right now to create reminders or calendar events in your phone. Include the question in the reminder or event so that you can immediately start thinking about it. 现在就花点时间在手机里创建提醒或日历事件。把这个问题写进提醒或事件里,这样你就可以马上开始思考。
The more random and non-conflicting with your schedule there are, the better. 越是随机且不与你的日程安排冲突,就越好。
11:00am: What am I avoiding right now by doing what I’m doing? 上午 11:00: 我现在这样做到底在避免什么?
1:30pm: If someone filmed the last two hours, what would they conclude I want from my life? 下午 1:30: 如果有人跟踪拍摄了你过去的两个小时,他们会得出你想要什么的结论?
3:15pm: Am I moving toward the life I hate or the life I want? 下午 3:15: 我是在走向我讨厌的生活,还是我想要的生活?
5:00pm: What’s the most important thing I’m pretending isn’t important? 下午 5:00: 我假装不重要的最重要的事情是什么?
7:30pm: What did I do today out of identity protection rather than genuine desire? (Hint: it’s most things you do) 晚上 7:30: 今天我做了哪些事是为了保护身份而非出于真心?(提示:你做的绝大多数事都是如此)
9:00pm: When did I feel most alive today? When did I feel most dead? 晚上 9:00: 我今天什么时候感觉最有活力?我什么时候感觉最死气沉沉的?
To add a bit more fuel to the fire, schedule these questions during times where you are either commuting, walking, or lying around. 为了进一步激发思考,不妨在通勤、散步或闲坐的时候安排这些问题。
What would change if I stopped needing people to see me as [the identity you wrote in question 10]? 如果我不再需要别人把我视为[你在问题 10 中写到的身份],会发生什么变化?
Where in my life am I trading aliveness for safety? 我生活中哪些方面为了安全而牺牲了活力?
What’s the smallest version of the person I want to become that I could be tomorrow? 我明天能成为的,最基本的“我想成为的那种人”是什么?
Part 3: Evening – Synthesizing Insight – Entering A Season Of Progress 第三部分: 晚间——综合洞见——进入进步的季节
If you followed that process, I would be surprised if you didn’t have at least one profound insight that could alter the course of your life. Now, we need to make those known, integrate them into who we are, and act on them to begin solidifying our journey to a new level of mind. 如果你遵循这个过程,我敢肯定你至少会获得一个足以改变你人生轨迹的深刻洞见。现在,我们需要将这些洞见表达出来,将它们融入我们自身,并付诸行动,从而开启通往更高心智境界的旅程。
After today, what feels most true about why you’ve been stuck? 今天过后,你觉得你一直以来陷入困境的最真实原因是什么?
What is the actual enemy? Name it clearly. Not circumstances. Not other people. The internal pattern or belief that has been running the show. 真正的敌人是什么?明确指出来。不是环境,也不是其他人,而是主导一切的内在模式或信念。
Write a single sentence that captures what you refuse to let your life become. This is your anti-vision compressed. It should make you feel something when you read it. 用一句话概括你绝不接受的生活现状。这就是你对未来的愿景。读到它时,你应该有所感触。
Write a single sentence that captures what you’re building toward, knowing it will evolve. This is your vision MVP. 用一句话概括你正在构建的目标,要知道它会不断发展演变。这就是你的愿景 MVP(最小可行产品)。
Lastly, we need to create goals. 最后,我们需要制定目标。
Again, these aren’t goals that you set for the sake of achievement, because goals are just projections. They are unreliable and make you feel bound to something that will inevitably change. Instead, think of goals as a point of view. A lens that you can exchange to enter the right state of mind to perform the action that will lead away from the life you don’t want. Do not worry about some kind of finish line, because as we will find, it doesn’t exist. Enjoyment is found in progress. 再次强调,这些目标并非为了达成而设定,因为目标只是一种预期。它们并不可靠,会让你感觉被某种终将改变的事物所束缚。相反,你应该把目标看作一种视角,一种可以让你调整心态、摆脱不想要的生活的视角。不要担心所谓的终点线,因为我们会发现,它并不存在。真正的乐趣在于过程。
One-year lens: What would have to be true in one year for you to know you’ve broken the old pattern? One concrete thing. 一年期视角:一年后,什么事情必须成真,你才能知道自己已经打破了旧模式?一件具体的事情。
One-month lens: What would have to be true in one month for the one-year lens to remain possible? 一个月镜头:为了使一年镜头仍然可行,一个月内必须满足哪些条件?
Daily lens: What are 2-3 actions you can timeblock tomorrow that the person you’re becoming would simply do? 每日思考:明天你可以安排时间做哪 2-3 件你想成为的那种人会毫不犹豫地去做的事情?
That was a lot. 那可真不少。
Hopefully it was helpful. 希望对您有所帮助。
But we have one last piece to lock it all in. 但我们还需要最后一块拼图来最终敲定一切。
Stick with me. 跟着我。
VII – Turn Your Life Into A Video Game
把你的生活变成电子游戏
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The optimal state of inner experience is one in which there is order in consciousness. This happens when psychic energy—or attention—is invested in realistic goals, and when skills match the opportunities for action. The pursuit of a goal brings order in awareness because a person must concentrate attention on the task at hand and momentarily forget everything else. 最佳的内在体验状态是意识井然有序的状态。当心理能量(或注意力)投入到切实可行的目标中,并且技能与行动机会相匹配时,这种状态便会实现。追求目标能够带来意识的秩序,因为人必须将注意力集中在手头的任务上,并暂时忘却其他一切。
– Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi
You now have all of the components that lead to a good life. 你现在拥有了美好生活所需的所有要素。
Now, it may be helpful to organize all of your insights into one coherent plan. Pull out a new page and write down these 6 components: 现在,将你所有的见解整理成一个连贯的计划可能会有所帮助。请另起一张纸,写下以下六个组成部分:
Anti-vision – What is the bane of my existence, or the life I never want to experience again? 反愿景——我存在的祸根是什么?或者说,我永远不想再经历的人生是什么?
Vision – What is the ideal life that I think I want and can improve as I work toward it? 愿景——我理想中的生活是什么样的?我可以通过努力不断改善这种生活?
1 year goal – What will my life look like in 1 year time, and is that closer to the life I want? 一年目标——一年后我的生活会是什么样子?这是否更接近我想要的生活?
1 month project – What do I need to learn? What skills do I need to acquire? What can I build that will move me closer to the one year goal? 一个月项目——我需要学习什么?我需要掌握哪些技能?我可以构建什么来让我更接近一年目标?
Daily levers – What are the priority, needle-moving tasks that bring my project closer to completion? 日常关键因素——哪些是能够推动项目进展、使项目更接近完成的优先事项?
Constraints – What am I not willing to sacrifice to achieve my vision from the ground up? 限制条件——为了从零开始实现我的愿景,我不愿意牺牲什么?
Why is this so powerful? 为什么这会如此强大?
Because these components literally create your own little world. If you are meant to pursue this hierarchy of goals at this stage of your life, you will have no other option but to become obsessed. You will feel the pull to something greater. You will not see anything else as an option. 因为这些要素实际上构建了你自己的小世界。如果你注定要在人生的这个阶段追求这一系列目标,你别无选择,只能全身心投入。你会感受到一种对更高目标的渴望。你会认为其他任何选择都不算数。
You turn your life into a video game. 你把生活变成了电子游戏。
Because games are the poster child for obsession, enjoyment, and flow states. They have all the components that lead to focus and clarity, so if we reverse engineer what those components are, we can live in a state of deeper enjoyment, less distractions, and more success. 因为游戏是痴迷、享受和心流状态的典型代表。它们具备所有带来专注和清晰思维的要素,所以如果我们反向推导出这些要素是什么,我们就能生活在更深层次的享受、更少的干扰和更大的成功之中。
Your vision is how you win. At least until the game evolves. 你的远见决定你的胜负。至少在游戏规则改变之前是这样。
Your anti-vision is what’s at stake. What happens if you lose or give up. 你的反愿景才是关键所在。如果你失败或放弃,会发生什么?
Your 1 year goal is the mission. This is your sole priority in life. 你一年的目标就是使命。这是你人生中唯一的首要任务。
Your 1 month project is the boss fight. How you gain XP and acquire loot. 你为期一个月的项目就是最终 boss 战。你将如何获得经验值和战利品?
Your daily levers are the quests. The daily process that unlocks new opportunities. 你每天的杠杆就是任务。每天的行动过程会解锁新的机遇。
Your constraints are the rules. The limitations that encourage creativity. 你的限制就是规则。正是这些限制激发了创造力。
All of these act as a concentric set of circles, like a forcefield, that guard your mind from distractions and shiny objects. 所有这些都像一组同心圆,如同力场一样,保护你的心灵免受干扰和闪亮物体的侵害。
The more you play the game, the stronger this force becomes, and soon enough it becomes who you are, and you wouldn’t have it any other way. 你玩这个游戏越多,这种力量就越强,很快它就会成为你的一部分,而你也不会希望它变成别的样子。